Long-term relationship with Lover
What should I do to maintain a long-term relationship?
Throughout our lives, we meet one person for a long time and become in a relationship.
If you're in a relationship for a long time, you're given two choices.
First : Decide to get married and proceed
Second : You'll think of separation.
If you face a breakup after dating for a long time, I think you often feel like you lose everything as you have accumulated memories and emotions.
And I think continuing a hard relationship that You afraid of breaking up right away even though have a lot of different thoughts, makes another person hard for you.
According to a renowned British love psychologist, when a relationship period is at least six months to two years, the affection for each other deepens and the desire for marriage develops.
"So I want to tell you how to respect, love, and maintain each other for a long time today."
What is the most important thing to be in a good relationship for a long time each other?
First / In my opinion, "Don't repeat what the other person doesn't like."
Going out with new people always makes you excited and heart pumpings.
In order to win the other person's heart, you hide your shortcomings and appeal
only your strengths to seduce the other person
However, as time goes by, my shortcomings are highlighted,
and if these shortcomings are damaging to the other person, relationship, should not do correct.
Nevertheless, if you keep showing your shortcomings to the other person,
it is difficult to maintain a relationship for a long time after all.
Even if the other person likes and loves you,
that persons are social animals and emotional humans,
so they are demonstrated, exhausted, and struggling to you.
Second / Know acknowledge each other's differences
A relationship is not something I do alone,
And it's something I do with the other person
If the other person does not admit that he or she is different from me,
he or she suffers from constant fights and conflicts every day,
and even small friction can lead to a big fight
Therefore, even if we get closer to each other,
we need to practice understanding and respecting
because we have lived in different environments, cultures, and spaces
Third / If you have accumulated feelings for each other,
you should find a good solution instead of keeping it in your mind.
If you always walking on eggshells or if you don't speak
because you're afraid that the other person will be hurt by your word,
each other's feelings will build up and eventually explode.
In order to have a good relationship for a long time,
it is also important to practice taking good care of each other's emotions.
Four / Need to share our plans with each other and
have a lot of conversations towards the right goals.
Even if all parts are perfect, if each of them has a different final destination,
they love each other, but their relationship may be out of order.
That's why we need to share our goals, share our opinions, and find the right way
Five / Should consistently provide expressions of affection and interest.
Even if you know each other's love for each other,
if don't express it, sometimes she or he wonder if you really loves me.
I think you will be able to continue a successful love life
if you continue to express small but small affection and pay attention.
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